autumn

It’s Okay to Walk In Silence

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Hustle culture has programmed us to loathe — even fear — silence.

Commuting without blasting music, podcasts, or audiobooks in our ears just seems like a waste of precious time.

Creativity, however, doesn’t require constant learning. Our brains don’t need stimulation to dream.

About a week ago, I needed to head home across town. I was only about three miles out and didn’t feel like waiting 15 minutes for the bus. So, I walked.

I generally hate to waste time — commuting or otherwise — so, I called and caught up with a family member.

After we hung up, I found myself walking — in silence.

Street lights were sparse, and traffic was light. So, it was a rather dark silence with only my thoughts for company.

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Here’s Why People Like Autumn So Much

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Ever get the feeling you’re just happier during autumn?

You’re not alone.

According to a survey of 2,000 Americans, 56 percent said they were happier in autumn than any other time of year — and this was conducted in the middle of the pandemic.

At surface level, it seems counterintuitive. How does autumn compete with spring or summer?

It’s cold — often rainy — and it reminds us that winter is coming. We have to go back to boring school or our boring jobs after a much-needed vacation. Also, because of the holidays and traveling, money is often tight.

There are upsides, for sure.

The cool, crisp air; the food and drinks; in America and Canada, Thanksgiving — also in America and Canada, football and hockey seasons.

Traditional autumn fashion is also better than the stuff people wear at other times of the year.

Then, there are the leaves.

Growing up in Florida, that didn’t mean much. Leaves turned from bright green in September to a boring brown by November.

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